The SKIP approach is based around the Six Principles – six things children need to grow into happy, capable adults – as outlined by The Discipline and Guidance of Children research report.

1. Love and warmth
   This builds the bonds of trust, love and positive self-esteem.
2. Talking and listening
   Talking with children, listening to what they say and giving clear messages strengthens confident and healthy relationships
3. Guidance and understanding
   Children are more likely to co-operate when they understand why we require things of them. Straightforward explanations inspire greater co-operation.
4. Limits and boundaries
   Rules keep things safe and fair for the whole family. They need to teach mostly ‘what we do’ rather than ‘what we don’t do’. They need to work for everyone – for children and parents.
5. Consistency and consequences
   Consistency involves predictability. From an early age, children learn that an action has consequences.
6. A structured and secure world
   Safe, supportive environments provide security and reduce conflict.

Reference: S.K.I.P - strategies for kids|information for parents.  Used with permission.